Monday, January 31, 2005

~1-31-05~ IS it nap time yet?!?!?!

i had to come up and smoke a cigarette before i beat my child!

i guess it is partly my fault, since he was quiet and not visible for an amount of time, i should have known he was doing something he shouldn't.

he runs in to me, "mess, mess" he says. so i follow him into the kitchen where i see he had a carton of my cigarettes all over the floor. about 8 of these packs were OPENED and the individual cigarettes all over the kitchen floor!!!!!

mind you we already had about 3 time outs today! so he once again got the chair. then while i was in there picking up all the cigarettes, which took longer than his 2 minute time-out, i hear him, "mom" "mom" "mom". i tried not to laugh, i think he thought i forgot about him. he actually stayed in the chair though. he never tries to get off of the chair. so i know he knows, he just never follows through with not doing it again. like i said a million and one times, he is lucky he is so darn cute and i love him soooooooooooooooooooo much!

so now i have a baggie full of like 100 UNPACKED cigarettes!

i'm ready for a nap!! i still have 2 hours to go! and no, i never did get to bed last night, like a good girl, at a decent hour. also needless to say there is NO ONE here working on my house! in their defense it is only 18 degrees. when the hell is it supposed to get up to the 30's? at 5pm?!?!

well i need a nap anyways so i can't bitch too much. i should head back down and see what my son has tore up now! sigh..........gotta love being a mom! :)

~1-31-05~ OMG!!!!!!!!!!

for those of you who follow dr. phil, or even if you don't...

this week the couple that was on before, the man is a doctor, and he is having an affair. his girlfriend is now pregnant. well he doesn't know which one he wants to be with. and BOTH these women are standing for this!!!!!!! why his wife has not told him to hit the road, give me 1/2 i am gone, i have no clue.

well anyways they are back this week and the girlfriend is there!! and let me tell you this. this woman is U-G-L-Y, she ain't got no alibi, she UGLY!!!!! i'm talking falling out of the ugly tree and hitting EVERY branch!!!

NASTY!! not that it would if whe were pretty, but i was expecting some young nurse or something. oh hell no!

i guess i could *somewhat* understand if my husband was cheating on me with some hot little thing, but some nasty old woman?!?!?!

i already marked it on the dvr, i sure won't miss that episode!! check your local listings. i think it is either wednesday or thursday.

~1-31-05~ Weekend re-cap

well we finished the rest of our movies. by the way my movie finally got here like friday!! once again. i was a bit disappointed, but not as much as that damn napoleon dynamite and open water weekend. last weekend we watched garden state, don't know if i mentioned that...stupid! didn't like it AT ALL!!!! this weekend we watched manchurian candidate, it was ok. i would really like to see the original now, just to compare. we also watched the village. it was also ok. i heard from a lot of places that it was stupid. it really wasn't stupid, just not what you expected. not horrible, but not great. tonight we watched troy. all i have to say is BRAD PITT!!!!! need i say more?! no, it is just a good thing he was in the movie. i didn't think it was all that. i didn't like him being a "bad" guy, and it pissed me off that that little wuss (in the movie) orlando bloom, was the one who ended up killing him.....when he was doing good!!! oh well, it is a movie, got to see him practically naked, so who am i to complain. so we had just an ok weekend movie wise.

now this coming weekend i should get some GOOD movies. well knowing how blockbuster is, i probably won't get them til the following weekend. i should be getting the forgotten (it is supposedly shipped out already). i wanted to see this so bad when it was out, it looks pretty cool. also cellular. that too looked good to me. the last is the grudge. it looked pretty scary, the makers of this movie also made the boogeyman, which is out now. looks pretty scary as well, can't wait til it is out on dvd.



not much else this weekend. my phone for some reason was not working on friday, so i never got to talk to the loan guy or my realtor. probably tomorrow. i don't think i am goin to get too worried or excited about anything until we have our house on the market. it just doesn't make sense. i mean i will still look and cross my fingers about the ones i already like, but i'm not stressing over it.

this week it is supposed to finally be back in the 30's so HOPEFULLY my house will be DONE this week!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! then i can finally get motivated to get the inside ready and boom, we can put our house on the market! i'm shooting for a month, depending on how quickly my cousin works on the siding. the inside of my house just looks worse than it actually is. it is just cluttered. i just need to get stuff picked up and packed away and we will be fine. we may paint a bit, but that is about it.

i got THIS great idea from texas gurl. those would have worked GREAT, but of course they aren't in my area. i finally found one place that may have the same thing, but i don't know if the one in may area is open yet. on the website it says coming soon. i'm gonna call tomorrow and find out.



thank goodness one of my soaps is on cbs. while forwarding through the commercials, i saw and advertisment for that wickedly perfect show. here they moved it to saturdays. thank god i saw that or i would have missed it. it just sucks that now there is nothing on for me to watch thursdays at 8pm!! thankfully survivor should be starting soon.

what is up with all the repeats lately?!?!?! i mean lost has me confused as it is, now going a few weeks with repeats, i am really going to forget what the hell is going on!!!!

then bush has to screw me on wednesday with that damn state of the union. yeah i know how the state of our union. IT SUCKS!!!!!!



well, i am off to bed, with the hopes of them pounding away on my house tomorrow, i'll gladly sacrifice our naps to get it done.

nite-nite

Friday, January 28, 2005

~1-28-05~ Pictures

well as per the previous post, i did post some pictures below it.

that sure made me sad. i miss those days so much!!!! i had a great childhood. it sucks that it is all over now.

i'm glad i have such good memories!!

enjoy!

~1-27-05~ Sorry I skipped yesterday

yesterday was just busy!

we went and talked with the loan guy....did all we had to do for that. i had to sign about 2000 papers!

my credit score was great! even though i know presently it is not that high. for some reason the credit thing he got didn't have my bankruptcy or my credit card that i have transferred some balances too. so it was nice and high for a second.

the rate that is possible for me is 6.65%.

i also found out that the house that i thought was sold, that was our "favorite" was NOT sold, but taken off. it has been up for 6 mths! i don't know why it hasn't sold! unless the sellers were very strict on the selling price. i don't know, cause if it were up to me, i'd make them an offer tomorrow!!!!

that may be a good thing. if by some miracle we decided to do something sometime soon, then maybe they would be willing to put it back up and take a lower price. who knows, but my favorite has now switched to the other one i talked about.

anyways, that one has only been up for like a week. so i doubt they will be willing to come down on the price so soon. but we aren't ready for all that right now anyways, so oh well.

i just sort of took the thought, that when it is the right time, it will all happen. if i don't, i'll stress myself out and i don't need that right now. i'd rather use my energy to get our finances straight and get this house in order.

i just wish my cousin would get over here AND FINISH MY DAMN HOUSE!!!!! i hate looking at a half sided house! so really i have no control over to list our house now or not!!!! i don't want to list it and have people drive by when it is only half done!

i think once it is finally finished, that will motivate me to do more on the inside. it just sucks cause there is some work that we may have to do inside. i really don't want to, but the nicer it looks, hopefully the more someone else will fall in love with it and give us what i want for it! so that means we are probably going to have to paint. i LOATHE painting! i hate, hate, hate it!! more than i actually hate cleaning!!

the other downside is i think we are going to have to rent a storage unit, when we are serious about putting it up for sale. i have read numerous places that you shouldn't have your house cluttered, so it looks more spacious. which i understand. but i don't even want to think about having to move all of my stuff TWICE!! people, i have a lot of shit! i am a pack rat. no, it isn't going to change! and no i am not throwing anything out!! i have recently seriously considered going through my stuff and trying out ebay. but UGH, i just do not want to go through all that stuff. yeah, i don't want to throw it out, but i don't want to go through it either. i make a lot of sense. why do i want it just laying around, when i don't even know all of what is there anymore?!

i mean why do i want to keep all my notes and stuff from middle school and high school. YES i still have notes from then!! as a matter of fact, i still have like all of my actual notes from classes too. tests, quizez, notes, folders.....i have it all!!! how those would ever come in handy, i have no clue, but i don't want to throw them out!!

i know you are all going to think i am silly, but it actually looks like it is more than it actually is. it is just not organized down there, so it just looks bad. the only bad thing is i do have a shit load of clothes. once again, i am sure i have some still from high school! why not get rid of them?!?! the same thing every woman says....... i still may be able to fit back into them some day!!!!! when i lost a lot of weight, i went out and bought a ton of cute clothes! i really do want to be skinny again someday. not that any of it would be in style then, or now, but for those of you who know me, i don't care. i'm not trendy. as a matter of fact, i am ahead of my time in that aspect.

i wore floursent stuff before that whole fad even came. i wore boots with everything, and people thought i was nuts, now everyone is on a boot kick. i had more piercings than anyone i knew of and i was 12, granted they were just my ears at the time, but now everyone is pierced. i had the wild and crazy hair, and clothes, people probably thought i was strange...everyone always stared at me, hell now a days, noone would give ME a second glance! speaking of which i may go ahead and post some old pics of me, just so you all know what i am talking about.

how did i go off on that rant?!?! see how my brain goes!

i have a lot of stuff. i think that was my point.

so blah, blah, blah...........new subject.

well ER was awful like i thought it was going to be, but not in the normal ER way. i mean i hardly even cried!!!!!! what is up ER?! are you losing your touch?! i thought i was going to be bawling buckets!!!

i'm glad the guy that got booted on the apprentice got booted. he got on my last flippin nerve. but then again so did that girl he was fighting with. so either of them could have went. and what about that chris dude?!?!? who the hell is he?!?!? i didn't even know who he was, then he all flipped out at the boardroom.

why was wickedly perfect not on tonight?! am i the only one who watches? well there is nothing else on at 8, what am i supposed to watch. it is funny that one darlene (?) broad on there, was on QVC (one of them) pitching sewing machines the other day. i kind of take it that means she doesn't end up winning. hhhmmmm......

well, i'm gonna go look for old picture of me to share. if i find any and get them on here, i'll post them below. night!!


Here is where it started 1987 Posted by Hello


Late 1988, Lasha was a birthday gift. Posted by Hello


In full force 1989. Posted by Hello


Senior Pictures. Yeah!! taken in late 1990. Posted by Hello


I had enough...time for a change. Graduation. 1991 Posted by Hello

Wednesday, January 26, 2005

~1-26-05~ Blockbuster SUCKS!!!

i just wrote to blockbuster telling them how much they suck!!!!!

i still have NO MOVIES!!!!

one of my movies was shipped out the 19th. i was supposed to have it by the 22nd. as of yesterday that 25th, i still have no movie!!!!!

with netflix if i mailed a movie back on sunday, they HAD it by monday, my new movie was shipped and i would HAVE it by wednesday!! they did not piss around!

yeah i may be saving $3.00 over netflix and i get the in-store free rentals, but it is ridiculous! i never have movies when we want to watch them. AND even with the free rentals, the store never has the movies in i want to see anyways, so what is the point?!?!

i'm pissed. they better correct this fast, or i am definitely switching back to netflix!!!!

~1-26-05~ AAAGGHHHHH!!!!

well i posted earlier, but when i hit post, i don't know what the hell happened. i think my laptop is pissed that i haven't used him lately.

so i was bitching because i checked "my" houses for the 850th time today, and it now says that my FAVORITE is either sold or taken off the market. GOD DAMN IT!!!!!

i am more pissed cause of all the time and energy i have exerted the last few days over that damm house!!!!!

i guess it just wasn't meant to be.

so now it makes it an easier choice for my favorite.

we are going to talk to the loan guy tomorrow. i'm kind of hesitant about it though. i talked to the realtor today about how long is the pre approval good for. he sort of confused me. he said something about 60 days, but the about a contingency til i sell my house.

if it does expire in 60 days, i don't think we should go ahead and do it, because i really do not see being out of here in 60 days!! so you realize all i would have to do?!?! i mean all i would have to do to even show people this house! that would take 60 days itself!!!!

so that is going to be my first question tomorrow. but it sucks cause if we go see the house we like, then i would want to make an offer, but how can i make an offer when my house isn't even up for sale yet!!! aren't those contracts only good for 30 days?!?! i hate this!!! it was just so much easier when i didn't have to worry about selling my house! too bad i couldn't put it up for sale, but have someone renting it out til i do sell it. that would be awesome! but i don't know anyone who i would/could trust, or anyone who could afford my house payment. sucks!!!!! PLUS....i need the money from the sale to put as a down payment, so there is no way getting around that my house needs to sell first!

i guess we can talk about all that good stuff tomorrow. i'd love to go check out some houses this sunday.....but once again i think i am getting ahead of myself.

i made the mistake of saying, during the amazing race, that the 2 wrestlers were somehow my favorites.....well i jinxed them!!! they got booted!!! i just really don't like anyone else! they all get on my damn nerves!!!! usually i at least have some team i want to end up winning the thing, but this season, i don't know. but i still LOVE the show!

well it is early, for me, so i should try to get to sleep. it is supposed to be in the 30's tomorrow, so i am HOPING and PRAYING that they are going to come and do some work on my house. and as i always complain, that means NO nsp, so i should try and get some sort of sleep tonight. i actually took a shower tonight, so that is something i don't have to rush and do tomorrow before we go see the realtor and loan guy.

i'll type at ya later!

Tuesday, January 25, 2005

~1-25-05~ HOUSES!!!!

well i am still going through the SAME houses, trying to narrow down what i like and what i think i can afford.

i finally talked to the finance guy. i don't really understand what he told me, it seems sort of odd. he said we could apply for a stated income loan. it will only be in my name, since my credit score is like 710 or something and bob's is only in the 500's. you state your income, but it is never verified. HOW IS THAT?!?! i don't see why someone would give me a loan and NOT verify my income. that just seems odd to me. i'll google it and see what shows up. i just found THIS, THIS, and THIS. whatever, i still don't get it, but oh well.

anyways, he said i could get one of those up to my stated price of $180,000. with an interest rate of 6.5%. i really hope that we can get it lower than that, cause that just seems high to me. especially when i started figuring out what our monthly payments would be on a $180,000 house!!!!! i am really hoping to get about $30,000 for selling ours, and then put $20000 of that as a down payment. but still with taxes and home ins. that sure jacks up the monthly payment!!! so far i haven't got an estimate below $1400!!!!!!!!! that is more than double what we are paying now!

i just don't know if we could do that. i mean we could if i quit paying quadruple on our credit card bills, but i would go nuts just paying the minimum payment on those! not to mention they would NEVER get paid off!!!!!

on a good note, bob's car will be paid off in a year, so there is $220 extra a month. i'll have mom paid off by june/july, there will be an extra $200. and i guess i could, for a short while, pay the minimum payment on some of the credit cards. at least hopefully til we could refinance to a lower percentage rate.

or maybe i could go out and get the part time job i talked about....GASP!! i looked in this sunday's paper and there was squat!!!! i did not check one single add!!! that sucked. bob said something about getting a part time job, i just feel bad for that......even though it is his own fault we are in the situation we are in......so i don't know.

a quick question for any of you who may know.....my mother said that it is going to cost me like $200 to get pre-approved for a loan. we are supposed to go wednesday, and he sure didn't say anything like that! i sure don't remember paying when we got this house. then she said that that is only good for like 30 days!!!! well there is no way in hell i'm going to be out of here in 30 days, so what the fuck?!

i seriously have to call tomorrow and find all that out. if either of those are the case, then we are just going to have to wait. i don't even think my house will be done in 30 days!!!!!!!

so anyways, i have been driving myself crazy all night with these houses. i have narrowed it down to my favorite 6.

THIS one is now tied for my first favorite. it is a bit smaller than i wanted, but you gotta love the hot tub, above ground pool and the tanning bed!!!!! i'm not too crazy about the location though, and it only has .26 acres.

THIS one is also my favorite. it has about 250 more square feet than the first. it too has a hot tub, but it has an INGROUND pool. i also like that it has 2 floors. the master bedroom is huge at 16x21, and it has 3 fireplaces (yes, that is a selling point for me.) i like the area better too. but it doesn't have any sort of room in the basement, which bob is planning for his own sports tv viewing area. it only has .21 acres.

all of these are hard to place in any order, but here are the rest.

THIS one was 2nd, but it doesn't have any additional pictures and it is more expensive, even the taxes! i do like that the master bedroom is on the 2st floor. the kitchen is huge! it doesn't even give the acerage. don't much like the location of this one either.

I changed my mind, i think THIS one is a close 1st or second. the worst thing is that IT DOESN'T HAVE CENTRAL AIR!! fortunately it does have a forced air furnace, so we could get a/c installed. it too has 3 fireplaces and a mother-in-law suite! even better it has a family room, siting room, and a rec room in the lower level. the kitchen even looks nice. it has .37 acres.

also close in the running is THIS one. it just looks adorable! it is way small though! i do love lousiville, but i don't really want to live out there again. it just seems so far from everything. i love the yard, looks like it has a ton of trees. it has .34 acres.

finally there is THIS one. i just love that this one has .76 acres!!!! the location is great too, but the house itself is sort of small. it has the lower level rec room for bob.

i'm so torn!!!!!! of course the first 2 that are my favorites are $179,900! i really want to ask if they would take $165,000. i hate doing that, cause i don't know if that just seems ridiculous to ask them to take that much lower. oh and i forgot to mention that for my loan i would have to have a contingency clause. i know a lot of people don't want to deal with those, so that sucks, but i need to sell my house before i can buy one!!!!

another selling point of the first 2 is that they are close to my mom. you all know how i am about that!

but again i do like the last 3 cause they are in the 160's range already, which means i can even make a lower off on those!! oh decisions, decisions!!!!!! i hate this shit!

well, again it is going on 3am, so i need to get to sleep. night!!

Monday, January 24, 2005

~1-243-05~ He's back

bob made it home around 10:30pm. i'm sure he is wiped out. i would go insane being in a vehicle that long!!!!

i got a plant out of the deal. it is funny, because it is almost exactly like one of the plants that i was considering sending down to the funeral.

everyone seemed to be in good spirits, considering the events the past few days. i'm sure it will be hard for bob's mom to leave, and i'm sure the father will be sad as well. my thoughts and prayers are with them.



crazy neighbor kid came over again tonight. firstly he brought me a pack of cigarettes over for the pack i gave him. if you were replacing cigarettes wouldn't you buy the same brand that they gave you?!?! i gave him regular basics, and he brought over menthol monarch's or something. i said that was nice of him, but he could keep them. then he proceeded to tell me about his friends that lived a few doors down in these apartment buildings. well the boiler went out and these poor people have been without heat since wednesday.

he was telling me about the kids living there and there was a 9mth old baby. at first i thought he was going to ask if these people could stay with me. my heart was in my throat, what the hell was i supposed to say if he asked?!?! mind you people, i cannot tell anyone no for anything!! yes, i am stupid! i let crazy lady borrow my car, and i didn't even know her at the time! but she was telling me this sob story, what was i supposed to do....say no?!?!? i know some of you are saying yes, but i just can't! that is half the reason we don't answer the door here (and abotu 75% of why we want to move) we get people that come and knock on our door, all hours of the night, asking for money or rides places!!!!! and what do we do...we usually do it!! bob is just as bad as me. it is amazing how many people's mamma's are in the hospital out of town and they need money to get there!! as a matter of fact i think one guy actually came here twice, with the same story. i don't remember though. usually if it is late, bob is the one who answers it, not me.

speaking of which, someone was beating the fuck out of my door the other night. did i already mention that? i just got out of the shower, and was like FUCK, cause i didn't lock the door. i even thought to myself i should lock it before i went up, since bob and clay left, but then thought i would just leave it open for him. i hurried to look out the window, but i didn't see any cars. and they were like beating HARD!! like 3 or 4 times!! of course by the time i got something on and down there they were gone. i asked crazy neighbor kid if it was him, and he said no. which i didn't think it was him, cause when he knocks it is real light, and you barely hear it, whoever this was was BEATING on it. needless to say i will always be locking the door now! i know, i should anyways. i'm still living back in the 80-90's when we never had to lock our doors.

back to my original story, how in the world did i get off that track????

so he asked if we had any space heaters. i lied and said no. but then felt guilty so i told him i would dig around in the basement so come back in an hour. so i got the heaters and some blankets for them. now i feel much better. i just looked at the temperature though..... -2!!!!!! i was going to put one of the heaters in clay's room tonight since it gets cold in there. but then i was picturing this little 9mth old baby with NO heat at all and i felt bad, so i gave it to them. i guess i did my good deed for the day. i just can't even imagine having no heat! i feel bad for them, they seemed like really nice people. the girl thanked me a bunch of times, so i'm glad i let them borrow them. now if i just get everything back!!

and why did crazy neighbor kid have to tell me that he got some old playboy's from them to read, cause he liked the articles and jokes?!?! i didn't see them, so why share that info?!?! it's not like i caught him reading them and he had to give me some excuse. too much info buddy!!!



i'm supposed to start exercising tomorrow. quit laughing!!!!! yeah, i've only been saying that for how long now?! i've been taping that dude who works out in hawaii on the beaches and stuff. i remember him from when i was little. he looks the same!! but i figured i can try some of that. i thought about walking up and down the steps a bunch of times, for some cardio. i don't know if i would make it far though. and i can just see clay following me up and down and then him tumbling down them!! UGH! i taped some other shows that seemed cool, but when i checked them out they all needed special shit like rubber band things, weights or steps. so i deleted those. i just need somethig i can do in my living room in the little space that isn't taken up by toys!



well if i am even going to contemplate working out tomorrow, i need to get off of here and get to sleep. good night everyone!

Sunday, January 23, 2005

~1-23-05~ Another quick bitch

Even though i am quite pissed at bob, he informed me last night he had to go to virginia today to pick up his dad and nephew because his mom was going to stay with is grandpa for a few days.

now i have NO problem that she wants to stay with her father, that is understandable. however i can't believe she wanted bob to drive 6 hours down there just to turn around and drive 6 hours back to pick up them up. plus he has to work tomorrow morning! i am not cold hearted, if there were NO other way i could understand, but i don't see why ed couldn't have driven home and when it was time for carol to come home figure it out then. or hell she has a daughter that lives down there, why couldn't she or her husband drive ed and eddie back up?!?! i also can't believe that ed could not have got off a few more days of work.

i mean of course bob isn't going to tell his mother no, but ijust thought it was very rude to ask. hell, as poor as i am, i was about to pay for a damn rental car, just for ed to drive himself back up here, so bob wouldn't have to. i just think it is stupid. bob left here about 7:30 this morning. which means he will get there probably 1:30, if they leave right away they will probably get back around 8pm, just about time for him to go to bed!! i highly doubt they will leave right away. so who knows when he will get home. i also had to give him a credit card to get gas which pissed me off....read previous posts......but what else could i do?!

i also felt bad that he had to drive all that way himself. i already talked to him a few times, i know he is bored, poor thing. at least the roads aren't bad, which was my main concern.

i mean i know family is family and you do all you can to help them out. i would do the same thing, but the thing is, my family would NEVER ask us to do something like that. oh well, nothing can be done now. just as long as everyone gets home safe and sound, i'll be ok.

i wasted another night last night on a dumb movie. garden state. just let me say i am already regretting leaving netflix for blockbuster. with netflix, if i mailed a movie back on sunday, they HAD it on monday, and was sending me another out, and it would be here by wednesday. well blockbuster takes forever!! i was supposed to have 2 movies by saturday. i got 1 (friday night lights), which we watched on friday. so no more movies for the rest of the weekend!!!!! we used my free coupons to go to the blockbuster store, well what i wanted was NOT in (HATE THAT!!). so that is why we got garden state, we also got manchurian candidate. i was hoping to watch it tonight, guess it depends on what time bob gets home. i hope he is smart enough to have his dad drive home, since he drove down there all day.

friday night lights wasn't a bad movie. i don't see why the movies was made, especially since they didn't win, which highly pissed me off. but OMG, the part at the end with tim mcgraw!!!! i was bawling! i think bob may have shed a tear too!! i felt bad for that boobie kid. even though he was a cocky fucker. if you watch this, make sure and watch the dvd extras. they are good. interviews with the actual guys. i'm glad boobie turned out as well as he did, all with a great attitude.


once again it is freaking freezing in here!!! i am about fed up with these single digit temperatures!!!!! i don't think i will ever bitch about 30 degree weather, hell even 20's, again!!!!


ok, enough for now....i'm going to attmept nap time, clay is being a pill at the moment. a cute pill though!!!!

Saturday, January 22, 2005

~1-22-05~ My resume

ok people, i just banged out a resume. let me know what you think. any suggestions are appreciated.

it is almost 4am, i need to get to sleep!!!

****i copied and pasted from word, so don't think that it actually looks like this!



OBJECTIVE
To find a job where I can use my skills to be the best employee I can be, all the while having pride in myself for my work and accomplishments.
EXPERIENCE
2002-2004 Whirlwind Cleaners
Owner/Operator
 Specialized in window cleaning.
 Responsible for all scheduling, accounting, invoicing and billing.
 Supervised 2 employees.
1999-2002 M & J’s Whirlwind Cleaners
Co-owner/Operator
 Specialized in new construction, commercial and residential cleaning.
 Responsible for all accounting, invoicing and billing.
 Supervised 4 employees.
1999-2000 U.S. Census Bureau
Office Assistant
 Responsible for data entry and payroll duties.
 Organized inventory.
 Organized and responsible for filing and organization.
EDUCATION
1991-1995 Kent State University-Stark Campus

 Psychology major
 Completed most liberal arts requirements.


SKILLS
 I am very proficient with computers.
 I have management experience.
 I can do various office tasks.
 I have worked in food service and preparation.
 I have janitorial experience.
 I have child care experience.
 I have travel experience and work well with directions.
 I work well both alone and in a group
 I have worked with interacting and helping the public.
WHAT MAKES ME A GOOD CANDIDATE
I am a very dependable person and employee.
I work to get the job done to my and my employer’s satisfaction. I love to exceed the expectations that are placed on me.
Working in so many different fields of employment has made me excel at many different kinds of tasks and jobs. If needed to learn a new task, I am a very quick study. Learning new things is of a great joy to me, this makes new projects and jobs very fulfilling.
Taking the role of leader or being directed by others are strong qualities that I possess. People are very important to me from children to elders; I get along well with the co-workers and the public and enjoy working with them.
I possess a vast array of skills, talents, and experiences that will make me an asset to your company. I truly hope I get the opportunity to work with you.

~1-22-05~ Doing the unthinkable

yes i am. i am actually considering getting a job....GASP!! i know, i know!

i'm searching the job thing of our paper. it will definitely have to be part time! and as much as i don't want to work at night, it may have to be that way. i just don't see how i could get a sitter. especially for long periods of time during the day. the family that i do have available are much too old to be running after my son all day! and seeing how his napping is going, noone should have to, or i am should would want to, deal with that.

there is a great job in there, that has been in for a few weeks now, for a medical transcriptionist. i wish to god i knew how to do that, cause it is even from your own home. that would be so great!! i wish they could just give me a crash course, i am sure i could pick it up quickly. i am half tempted to write them and tell them that. seeing as how the job hasn't been filled yet.

there are a few others that seem ok, but some others. i am great with typing and comptuer stuff, but i don't really know anything about all this excel, pulisher, powerpoint stuff. when i used to apply for office work, you sure didn't need those skills! i feel so out of date!!!!

there are some cleaning jobs open, but i really don't want to do that, since i HAD MY OWN BUSINESS DOING THAT!!

heck i'd be happy to deliver the damn newspaper, but i remember once helping a friend, and we were out before the sun was even up, SORRY!! not for me!!

i almost just applied for one online, BUT i needed to paste my resume. A RESUME!!! UGH! how i used to dread making those, and i haven't had one in AGES! i don't relish the thought of having to make one before i can even apply to any of these that i have marked!!!!



on the subject of the psychic, i think she is psycho. i mean about the whole bob thing. YES HE HAS PISSED ME OFF AGAIN (enough so to look for a damn job!) so how if he loves me so much would he do the SAME shit that irritates me so much?!?! i just seriously do not understand how his brain works! oh that is right, apparently he DOESN'T have one or he wouldn't do the shit he does!!!!

so now since i cannot rely on my husband, i am thinking about considering getting a job! it sucks that i have to get a job to pay for the money that my husband takes from the account. how sorry is that?!?!

YES he took money out of the account again. and it wasn't just $20 or $30 bucks. try $250!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i'm sure you all have heard me repeatedly the past few days saying how we HAVE NO MONEY!!!! i just borrowed $500 to cover what i just sent out and now i am minus $250!!!!!!!!!!

he did the whole excuse and sorry thing. well neither of those are going to cover my bills that are now going to bounce! he is lucky there is no gun in this house, cause i would seriously be considering shooting him instead of sitting here considering getting a job!! i just want to scream!!!!



after i was all happy with him cause he called and apologized earlier for our fight. i should have known there was a reason he apologized! feeling guilty about anything?!

of course he did come home though and say that he wanted to go next week to the interment of his aunts ashes at arlington national cemetery. i didn't fight that fight yet, i wanted to have a nice weekend. well that is ruined now, so i will go ahead tomorrow and tell him that we are NOT going to D.C. i may even go as far as telling him he cannot go. if he goes that will be 2 days of work, one which would be time and a half that he will be missing out on. sorry if it sounds rude, but his ass has me in debt right now, all the bills he is making bounce are in MY name!! so he needs to make it up, if he misses work, i will have to borrow more money and we will never get caught up!! he is NOT missing work! sorry i have to be his mother, and he hates being treated like a child....well if he wouldn't do this shit i wouldn't have to act like his mother!

and i finally talked to the realtor today!!!!!!!!!!!! and he goes and does this shit! i sure don't want to get a new house, and have a HIGER house payment, when i can't trust i will have the money to make it!

he just makes me sick to my stomach! so of course now i really think he took my $50, even though he is still swearing that he didn't. YEAH honey, just like you swore you didn't take the check that was missing from my checkbook!!!! and he wonders why i don't ever believe him.

well it looks like another 3am for me, oh joy!!!!

Friday, January 21, 2005

~1-21-05~ I need your opinion

well now bob and i are fighting!

he calls me today and asks if i want to go to virginia. well, NO! so he gets mad.

before you all think i am a bitch again, let me explain.

i am not thinking of only myself. i am thinking of clay. i don't think we should lug him somewhere in a car for 8-10 hours for only a day and then 8-10 hours back! PLUS if you live in ohio or midwest, have you seen the weather coming our way?!?! ****Heavy snow expected tonight
Friday, January 21, 2005



We may get up to 10 inches of snow overnight and into Saturday if a storm tracks through our area as forecast. The National Weather Service has issued a winter storm watch for the area tonight through Saturday.

A major storm is bringing heavy snow to the Midwest. It will pass west to east through Ohio starting late tonight. If it takes a more southernly route, our snow will be less but still in the five-inch range.

Winds will increase Saturday afternoon, causing blowing and drifting snow. Driving will be hazardous.

Saturday's high will be 17, the low 5. Wind chills will be severe Saturday afternoon and night.****

does he really think it is wise to drive in that, with almost bald tires?!?! with our son in the car?!?!?!

HELL NO!!!!

now if it were just bob and i, hell we would have probably already been down there. i have no problem with that. i just don't feel it is necessary to put clay through that....OHHH not to mention that he needs to sleep in a crib, you know all the sleep issues i have had lately!!!! not to mention again that WE HAVE NO MONEY!

i am not trying to seem rude or uncaring. if it were a member of his family that he was actually close to i could see. he hasn't seen or talked to his aunt since his grandmother died in 2000. and before that he probably hasn't seen or talked to her in over 10 years. i know it is family. i understand that. and if he wants to be there for his mother i understand that too. i have no problem with that. if he wants to go that is fine, even if he takes off work, i understand, i have no gripes about that. i just don't think we need to take clay.

he tells me, "sometimes you have to just do things" well I get that!!!!! i just don't think it is fair to put clay into it.

maybe i am wrong, i don't know. so what do you all think????

~1-21-05~ HEADACHE!!!!!

well i just figured out some of my tax stuff, yes i actually did something productive, and i am now ready to go in and smother bob with a pillow!

we made damn good money doing my business, and i could just KILL him for losing it!!!!

we made about $138 per house and did maybe 2 a week. it would take at the most 5 hours!!!!! that is almost $30 an hour!!!!! granted i gave amy $10/hr, so we were still brining in $20 an hour!!!! and he complained about maybe working 12 hours a week?!?!?!

granted he is the one who did the work not me, plus he worked a full time job, but still people. WE HAD A DEAL!!!!!!!!! he got a car, he kept doing windows! you see how that worked! what not even 2 months after he got the car, he lost my damn business!!!!!

i am so pissed right now i could scream!!!!!!! i was just thinking, if we had only an extra $200 a week, we would be set. well we HAD that god damn it!!!!!!!!!!!

but anyways, remember how i told you i screwed up my bills from last pay. well i just remembered i never sent in my sales tax from last half, and this half is due the 23rd!!!! so that is $360 more i need to come up with somehow!! so i basically need $700 by the 23rd. well actually i need it NOW, so they can get there by the 23rd!! so now i get to call good old mom again. she is going to smack me. what was the point of paying her this month, when now i need it back, PLUS some!!

so now i have a killer headache!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



well, i was up til way past 3 last night, my dumb ass started looking at houses again! i don't even know why i bother. i need to find out if we can even get financed and afford what i am looking at. i did call that realtor today and he never got back to me. i guess once i talk to him and he calls around to some finance people we can see what we can do. so far here are some of my favorites:

HOUSE 1
HOUSE 2
HOUSE 3
HOUSE 4
HOUSE 5
HOUSE 6
HOUSE 7
HOUSE 8
HOUSE 9
HOUSE 10

the good thing is that both bob and i have the same favorite out of the bunch, the fist one i posted. the only thing is that i cannot find the damn address on the map!! i tried mapquest, and i even got out my map book i used for work/travel.

where the hell is boron street in massillon?!?!?!

one bad thing about moving, this may sound stupid to you all, and i may have already shared this. i don't want to move too far away from my mom. she used to come over every night that bob was on afternoons, now that he is on days she comes over at least once a week. she is not even 10 minutes away from me now. i know if we move much farther, she won't be doing that. that just kills me!!!!

who knows, i may be getting my hopes up over nothing. we couldn't get financed a year ago. who knows if a year has made a difference or not. plus if we can and do, we will still have to sell our house to get the money for a down payment, and hopefully the people's house we want to buy will accept the contingency.

enough about all the stuff giving me headaches!



so the apprentice started tonight! yes, that danny guy gets on my nerves. i am rooting for the high school degree people, but do they seem a little brash to you? i don't know if they are just getting portrayed that way due to editing or what. did you hear that one guy say fuck right to mr. trump twice!!! i mean i have a bad mouth! fuck is the every other word out of my mouth, but if i were around someone like that, especially someone i wanted to work for, and pay me big money, i would have the mouth of a nun!!!!

i'm still enjoying that wickedly perfect. i just like seeing what they come up with. i don't really like anyone, i hate that gay guy though. i sure don't think they are going to find the next martha stewart in that bunch though!

ER, wasn't too gripping tonight. BUT DID YOU SEE THE PREVIEWS FOR NEXT WEEK?! i think it is going to be terribly awful and i am going to need many tissues!!!! lord why do they do that to me?!?!



onto clay news.......he took NO nap today. he was having NO part of it. as a matter of fact the whole time he was in there, he managed to totally destroy what was left of his tent thing over his crib. bob got it back together and up, but it is so ripped and torn, now there is a big piece of it hanging down by his pillow.

and yes, with no nap, i realized it was 9:30pm and i no longer heard him up there playing. i am still crossing my fingers that this is just going to get us back on the schedule where he does take a nap. unfortunately for ME that means getting up at 7am again! i really hope he is not out growing his naps already. don't kids still take naps in kindergarden?!?!?! leave it to my child to be difficult.



here is the news story about bob's aunt. the results of the autopsy still aren't in, so noone really knows what happened yet. sad, sad, sad. the calling hours are tomorrow and the funeral saturday.

it took forever, but i finally found some beautiful flowers in my price range to send. it is a pretty spray of peach magnolias. i would have sent them this afternoon then i realized i had no clue as to what his aunt's last name was. i didn't know if i just sent it to the funeral home they would know who they were for. then when bob got home from work he said his mom already ordered flowers, and we were just going to give her money. WHAT?! i think that is just odd?! bob said i was being a bitch about it so i just dropped it. i still think we should have sent our own condolences. bitchy part here....especially as long as i took scouring the internet for some pretty and affordable flowers. i'm talking HOURS people!! well it ISN'T about me. i really wasn't trying to come off bitchy. i would have liked to send something down, especially since we aren't going to be there!! maybe i'll send something down to bob's grandfather's house. but how the hell am i going to get the address?! i just feel like we should be doing something....bitch coming back.....aside from actually going down there. i just don't do funerals. you all know how i am about the whole death thing. if it were up to me i wouldn't even have went to my father's. i just don't like them, and refuse to look at dead people. i like to remember people the way i knew them. plus i guess actually seeing them, would make it REALLY real.

plus i cannot see driving for 8-10 hours to get down there. i really do not see clay sitting still for that long at all!! and again, we have NO money right now! so i was really into sending flowers, something in our absense. bob hasn't mentioned it, so i don't know what he has planned.



oh, on to the NO money, somehow a $50 dollar bill has mysteriously disappeared from my check book. of course my first thought was to my husband, but he is swearing up and down it wasn't him....sorry if i don't believe it. BUT i do know that clay was playing on the computer desk where my checkbook was. and he knows MONEY, one of the few words he can actually say. my mother got him in the habit of playing with her money in her wallet...he gets a kick out of it. i was hoping if i asked him he would get it or go in some general direction so i would know where to look. NO!! i have looked everywhere! where the hell can it be?!?! another reason i don't think it was bob is because i tried to give it to him like 2 times this week for stuff we needed, and he didn't want to break it. it is a new $50, they are pretty cool, and we have never seen them before. but that $50 is what i was planning on getting us through til payday. so i don't know what the fuck we are going to do now. YES, i can just actually cook dinner every night, but who wants to do that?!?! i guess i will find it someday. i'm sure i will be happy when that day comes, but i'm not THIS day!!

well somehow it is 2am already. so much for my early night. i'll type at ya'll later!

Thursday, January 20, 2005

~1-20-05~ Sad news

we found out today that bob's mother's sister passed away today. she was in a car accident, she hit someone from behind, but they think she may have been dead before the accident.

i just feel awful for his mother!!!! and his grandfather! i cannot even imagine what is would be like to bury one of your children, and this is his 2nd! and he lost his wife a few years back as well. i just hate stuff like this! not that anyoen enjoys it!!!

i even asked bob if he wanted to go down there. they live in virginia. he said no, not to sound awful but i was glad because we have NO money right now to be traveling, and he really can't miss work since he just started his nw job.

i feel sad because i never met her. bob is not real close with them either. especially with the distance. another really sad thing, is that bob's mom and i were just talking and she figured her father was going to have to be moving in with her sister pretty soon. i don't know what is going to happen now. all of bob's mom's family is down there. now that is left i believe is one of her daughter's and her father. just typing this i just realized how little i know of his family!!!!

i just feel terrible! she was all crying on the answering machine, she made my heart drop because i didn't know what happened! and bob was late getting home so i was already worried! GOD I HATE THIS!!!!! so sad!!

we are going to send some flowers, again not to sound mean (or cheap) but do you all know how expensive flowers are?!?!?!?! my goodness!!!!!! i want to send something nice, but $100?! i know i am sounding cheap....and i am supposedly such a good hearted person! well i am a good hearted person for even looking at the $100 ones, i could have just picked the cheap little $40 thing!!!!

she hasn't called yet. she was supposed to call when she got there to give us the name of the funeral parlor. i hope they don't run into bad weather today, i know it was sort of bad here this afternoon.

i just feel terrible! i wish there was something i could do! my heart and prayers go out to them!



i don't know if i told you all. the birth control i got perscribed is NOT covered by my insurance. so my doctor wrote me a letter and diagnosed me with menorrhagia, so that my insurance would cover it! woo-hoo!! it really isn't a lie either. i just want to know why i was never diagnosed with this YEARS ago. maybe cause i never complained, i just thought that i was blessed with periods like that. so now instead of paying like $480 a year, i will only have to pay like $120. BIG DIFFERENCE!!!!

i finally watched american idol. i just STILL do not understand how some of these people think they can sing!!!!!! what in the hell?!?!?!?!

i am also starting to feel bad for some of these people. i mean it is one thing when the judges criticize the people, but when they just star busting out laughing while the people are still singing. i think that is so rude and unprofessional! i know if they were all nicey nicey then the ratings probably wouldn't be what they are.......you know me, i am just good hearted! :) i do already have a few favorites. 2 girls. the little blond country girl, and some other girl, i forget what her name is too.

lost still has me lost as to what is going on, but why is it so darn good?! i'm hooked!!

i'm watching that swimsuit model thing too. i think shannon is my favorite....i still don't like that gap in her teeth though, you think she would have had that fixed a while ago. i for sure thought that one girl was going home, that was all bitchy at the photo shoot. i still can't believe they sent that black girl home. i liked her, i thought she was pretty. oh well, i really don't care one way or the other, i am not too vested in any of them.

some nice lady commented that the problem i am having with clay sleeping may be due to the fact that clay is ready to give up his naps. and she is right, I am not ready for that!! that may well be the case, but i also think it is due to our schedule being all screwed up now. he used to be up around 7. now i don't ever hear him til like almost 8:30. and of course by the time i get out of bed and get him it is almost 9.

i waited and put him down for his nap today around 2pm, and he actually went to sleep pretty easily. i didn't even have to go back in there. but again tonight, he was a pill. but he is still cute!!

he did go to the potty again tonight. he usually does. he is the most pissing around little child! he soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo gets that from bob!!! half the reason he goes on the potty is to stall getting his diaper changed and his jammies on. he will sit on the toilet, drag every book he has out, do everything imaginable, just to stall!!!! i guess from my genes he got the not wanting to go to bed at a decent hour.

god it is after 1am already?! i thought i was doing good on time, how the hell long have i been looking at flowers?!

i'm hitting the hay. night all.

Wednesday, January 19, 2005

~1-19-05~ Heat Wave

WOW!!! double digits finally!!!! it is almost 20 degrees!!!! what a weather shock!!

~1-19-05~ TV updates and more

well there was alot on tv tonight it seemed!

all those guys from the biggest loser looked great! i'm jealous! i knew it was going to be between the tall guy and the bald guy. that one girl did great though! they all were pretty close!!

i didn't get to watch american idol yet. we will probably watch it during dinner tomorrow.

then the amazing race, all i can say is YIPEEEEEEE!!!!! that asshole finally got kicked off. i must admit it may be a bit boring without him though. i always look forward to him getting pissed and flying off the handle about something. i couldn't believe how well he took being booted. i thought he would have a total meltdown!! no drama, nothing!!! then phil kept asking questions, trying to get a response out of the wife, but she had nothing to say, except how much they love each other, blah, blah, blah.......i guess she deserves how she is treated, apparently it doesn't bother her.

i was glad that that model bitch, i hate her, did call jonathan out and call him an asshole. i was happy to see someone finally said something to him, but i don't even think he heard.

oh well.........then i just watched my soaps. i guess there wasn't that much on. why did if feel so time consuming?! i am actually on here early, early for me. maybe that means i will finally get to sleep early.

i semi did last night except at 4AM, i was awoke by clay crying. i sat up and got ready to check on him, then he was quiet and back asleep!! so i laid back down, then my throat was itching something terrible. i popped a cough drop, so i wouldn't wake up with a sore throat. next thing i know i spit my cough drop in a trash can, only to wake up with it rolling down my face and into my hair. i DREAMED that i spit it in a trash can!!!!!! so i was up again at 5:30!!!!!!!! AGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

clay is just becoming impossible at nap time...bedtime too for that matter! i think since he is pissing around so much at night, and not getting to bed til almost 11, that now he isn't getting up til after 8am, which is sort of good, but come 1pm, he is NOT ready for a nap!!!! he usually doesn't fall asleep til after 2! but he is still up about 4:30.

they may come to work on the house tomorrow. if so, we may not get any sleep, so maybe we can get back on our routine that way, even though i will be dead on my feet. you know i do so much during the day to tire me out!!!

then i think it is my fault he isn't getting to sleep cause he has to take 850 cars to bed with him, and he sits, lays, and plays with them. but if he isn't REAL tired, or gets up "early" i'd like him to have something there to occupy him. any comments/advice on that?! i mean if he were in a toddler bed, he could get out of bed and play with whatever he wanted, so what is the difference if he has toys in his crib??

ok, i keep calling my mom 100 times a day to talk. i feel all stupid like she is going to think something is up. i mean i usually talk to her about 50 times, so i don't know if she notices the excess. she said she was tired today, and i was all 100 questions about what's wrong and why is she tired. DUH, she did a lot at work today. i'm just a nervous wreck! i'm about to go back to that psychic lady just to ask about that! it is really going to drive me nuts! guess all i can really do is just keep praying and hoping that lady is right about what she said and all is going to be well. sigh!

i took the heater from my aquarium in the living room and put it in the one in the lighthouse room. i just check before coming up and it was 74 degrees. there were 4 of the previously unseen fish darting around. i can't remember how many there were, but i think there were more than 4. i can also see one of my black skirts swimming around. again i don't remember if all i had was 1 or 2. fish seem to disappear in that tank! like i said before i think sometimes when they die, they disappear behind that insert, and i don't ever see them again. there is one fish who i think lives back there and only comes out every few weeks. i thought he was long gone and just seen him for the first time the other day. my silver dollar is still in the same place he always is. i don't think that poor thing has moved since i put him in that tank, i feel so awful. i just should not own fish!!!! i am an awful owner!

recently i got some worms for my catfish. i don't know if he knows it is all out of guilt or not. he doesn't really seem thankful or greatful. he is probably just pissed that he doesn't have room to move around. and i understand! i really do need to get a hold of some pet stores to try and find him a better home. i wish i had one of those outside ponds. do you know they have heaters you can put in them during the winter so your fish don't die! it may just be certain kinds of fish, but god i would really be a nervous wreck in this weather! i could just see myself out in -10 degree weather and snow checking on the damn fish! yes, i really shouldn't have pets!!!

i almost put food out for the neighbor's cat the other day. it always comes in our garage and tears up our garbage. bob gets pissed, but 1. if he would put the trash in the trash cans where they belong the cat wouldn't get to it and 2. that is what cats do, they are animals!! especially if they are hungry!!!!

the poor thing was out there meowing to be let in, and it was freezing. i felt sooooo awful. thank goodness it runs, or i would probably let it in my house, then bob would really kill me!

the one crazy living there. a little back info. the lady that lives there is kind of goofy. we found out that her mother was suffering from alzheimers, so i just attributed her odd behavior for having to deal with something like that. i could not even imagine how hard, sad, frustrating, and plain awful that would be!! but then she finally had to have her put in a home, cause she would start escaping from the house and just wondering off. it got to the point where i was always looking out the window in fear of the lady escaping and noone noticing!!

anyways, i'm sure i mentioned their dog before. nice dog, he just doesn't have anywhere to run, doesn't get enough attention, and is a DOG!!! he would always bark and run after people, he was usually NOT tied up or got loose. well if you would stop and pet him he was fine! of course strangers would not know that, especially if you were afraid of dogs. but i took a liking to him and so did clay. i even CONSIDERED asking her if we could have him. then i also thought better of it. well i noticed that i have not heard him barking lately! back to my original story....

oops not yet. somehow this kid moved in with her, i guess she used to be his teacher i don't know. the kid seems weird, or like he is not all there. he is super nice! seems like a real nice kid, but goofy! so he comes over the other day to borrow a cigarette. so i just give him a pack, cause who knows when that lady would be back home and i didn't need him coming over every 10 minutes. he talks ALOT!!!!!!!! so he was going on about hating that cat! and wishing someone would take it. so then i asked about the dog. he said someone called the game warden. what i think he meant was the dog warden. and i freaked and was like "AND YOU GUYS DIDN'T GO GET HIM?!?!?!" he just laughed and said no. i was furious! i couldn't wait til bob got home. so now i am just freaked cause who knows how long it has been and i don't think they keep them long, before they kill them. so now, once again, i am half tempted to get this poor dog!!!!! i sooooooooooo wish i knew someone who had a farm, or some land so he could run around. i have like a 3 foot high fence, that would NEVER keep him in! even though he was stuck in it one night. you think he found his way in he could get out right?! NO. so i don't know. and YES, i am also feeling guilt over that now!!!!

i really can't belive that i haven't had an ulcer or 20 by now! really!!

maybe i can work on my cousin. HEY DAWNA, i know you are reading this. you want a nice dog?!?! he is really loving and a good dog!!!! he actually listens too! i'm not even his owner and he would listen to me when i would tell him to come and what not. think about it! you'd be saving a life!!!!!!! and me the guilt!

do you know i never turned in my sales tax for the first half of last year! i totally forgot since i wasn't working. so now i definitely have to at least turn it in for the last half. i think it is due like soon!!! like the 23rd. JOY! that means i have to dig out all my invoices and total everything up. i mean i guess i have to do all of that anyways to get our actual taxes done. but it is such a pain! especially figuring up all our miles, and receipts! i don't look forward to all of that. i'd really like to record a loss, but then i would probably get audited. even though i am sure it will be close. i mean i think we only worked maybe half the year if that! i went nuts on paper towels and scrapers! along with some of the other big purchases that i planned to claim for the business. the only good thing about me not having any business right now, is hopefully it will put us in a lower bracket. we got kicked up to a higher one, and that really cut our refund. i was pissed! i thought being married with a kid, we were supposed to get a ton of money back?! what the hell???

like usual i babbled on long enough. i'll let you all go now. good night!

Tuesday, January 18, 2005

~1-18-05~ IT'S FREAKING COLD!!!!

ok, this is getting a bit ridiculous!!!! i don't even know what the temperature has been in double digits!!!

i'm fucking freezing!!!!!!!!!!

new windows???????????? sure can't tell!!!!

new furnace???????????? sure can't tell!!!!

my house is freezing! i cold air coming in from everywhere and who knows where!

i think i have finally killed almost all the fish in my big tank in the light house room. just so you know, i think that "room" used to be a side porch, and they just enclosed it and made it a room. for some reason they didn't think to insulate it. and it doesn't help that it has a sliding glass door that feels like it is OPEN!!! oh, and there is no heater vent out there. so it is COLD!!!!

and of course, the heater in the tank i mentioned is NOT working!!!! i looked in there last night and it looks like a ghost aquarium (ghost town, get it?) i saw like 2 fish. i didn't see any dead, but i have an insert in there, so they may all be behind it, dead or alive?! the space heater i had in there also decided to quit working. so the temperature of the tank isn't even registering on my little thermometor. i hooked up another little space heater, i went in this morning and you couldn't even tell! so now i am racked with guilt. i should have about 50 spare heaters (for the aquarium) laying around, but of course in this house, who knows where they are. you'd think they would be with all of the aquarium stuff, wouldn't you?! hopefully i'll get out tonight to get one, you know i just have tons of spare money laying around for stuff like that!!!!!!!!

i do need, i mean NEED diapers, so someone is going to have to go out to get some, so maybe a heater will be got as well. my poor fish!

like usual, grandpa just came and it is lunch and nap time. i specifically told my mom yesterday to tell him to come over around 11am, it is noon!!!!!!! i was also nice and half asleep, under a nice warm blanket. not any more!!!

oh well....enough about me. hope you all are keeping WARM!!!!

~1-18-05~ Do you believe?

i will just start by saying that my pyschic reading tonight was incredible!!

if you don't believe or are skeptical, i'm sorry for you. tonight was a real eye opener to me. bob sort of pissed me off, didn't believe, and just totally brought me down.

but i will share the story with you all anyways. this was my first ever reading.

first she started by asking me if i did some sort of healing work or taking care of people. i told her, just as a mom. she said that she "Saw" the big heart i had and the capacity of love and caring that i had. i got a little weepy. i do believe that. i don't know if you noticed it lately, but i have been really becoming motivated to get out and do something. i so badly want to help people, and help those less fortunate. bob says, well everyone does, so that could be anyone not just me.....

then out of nowhere she said that someone came to her. a man. a grandfather type figure. i just shook my head, cause my grandfather is still here, and my other grandfather, i never really knew, so i didn't know why he would want me to know he was there. then the words that came out of her mouth next, burst my heart, and then the tears DID flow.

i'll give you a little back story. back in 1996, the 2 most important things in my life were my father and my dog, harley. well after my father died, as it wasn't bad enough, harley started acting VERY weird. it broke my heart watching here day by day sitting at the door waiting for my dad to come home for work. well not long after my father died, she became ill. she already had a few back surgeries, and she needed another one. of course her doctor was on vacation, so i got some quack, who made us wait a few days to see if steroids helped her (her doctor did surgery RIGHT away so the pressure on her spine would not cause permanent damage) well we waited and needless to say this asshole caused her to have spinal cord damage and she had to be put to sleep. so i lost the 2 most important things in my life in a matter of months of each other. the only comfort i got was the fact that i knew they would now both be together.

so now tonight, she tells me, that this man has a dog with him!!!! WHAT?!?! i'm crying now again, just thinking about it. why would she say that. i mean what relevance would that be to anyone except to me?!?!?! so i asked her if it could be my father and she said yes. i really wished i could have expanded on that more. but i was at a loss and a little taken a back. it is funny, well may sound stupid to you, but all day i kept asking him to please come if he could. and i really think he did!! i think he let me know that they were both together and he is with me, and does hear me when i talk to him. but anyways, bob made that into, well everyone has dogs. but how relevant is that to everyone, especially when those are the 2 most relevant things to me?!?!

she then moved on and asked me if i had 2 children. i said no. she said she seen, 2, no 3, no 2, she kept going back and forth. she said she sees 2 and maybe the other one is a possibility. i told her WOW, bob wants one. i did not say that bob wants one more boy and that is it, but i want a girl. a while later in between something else, she said she sees 2 boys around me. so i am figuring it means i am going to have a boy, then try and talk bob into one more to see if i can get a girl. she then said that if i have a 3rd it will be a girl.

she said she sees a new truck or something like that. i don't know what that is cause i don't need or want a new vehicle.

a thing that did worry me is she said something is going to come up with my mother. WORDS I WAS DREADING HEARING!!!!! but she said to be assured that everything was going to be alright. i should assure myself and assure her. so i am scared to death about that one. and you all know how i worry about stuff like that. so now i will probably develop an ulcer! and do i tell my mother?!?!?!? once agin i wish i would have asked her more about that, but i was dumnfounded and scared shitless!!!!

she then asked if i was into any creative arts, like drawing or anything...god i almost typed drawling (funny when you read what is next)!!!! she said that she sees me being involved in writing, and being gifted that way. she said i have a true gift and should try and persue it. that she could see me writing and selling novels!! what is sooooooo odd is that i used to love writing. i used to write poetry all the time, i kept diaries forever, and i used to dream of writing a novel. what is funny from above, is that you would never guess that i used to be into writing with all my wonderful grammar and spelling, huh?! honestly, i used to be a journalism major while at mount union. like i said that only did last one semester. i didn't even get to take any writing courses. so that was about the gist of it.

OH, i forgot she asked my husbands name, and i told her. she then was like WHOA! she kind of put her hands together to try and give me a visual of what she "SEES" and said usually when she does the spouse, it usually moves a little toward each other, but bobs went right up against mine, and mine didn't back away any. she said that is a sign of true soul connection, a very deep love. then she reitterated how much she saw that he loved me. she also made some comment about our relationship, that made me respond, yes we were on and off for almost 10 years before we finally got married.....so to me again, she was DEAD ON!! bob should have been happy about that part, instead of trying to dismiss it all as nonsense!!!!

when it was time for me to ask questions, she already hit on a lot, but i asked her about my house. were we going to be able to sell it and will we be able to get a new one. she said that when she asked the question, she saw a for sale sign being laid down on the ground. the ground had new grass coming up, but had a light dusting of snow. she thought it would sell around the beginning of spring, definitely before may!!!!! she said it would sell fast and we wouldn't have a problem. oh, she also asked about the painting in my house, she asked if it was differnt of crazy, i couldn't remember what...i was like, well i have all my trim painted gold in the living room, some may think it is odd....and she said about how well i have it decorated, which if i do say so myself i tent to agree with her.

the other thing i was skeptical about was she said that the new house she saw, had a lot of land, which i do want that, but she said it was a 1 1/2 story or a split level. that is soooooooo NOT me. i want a nice old 2 or 3 story house. but i guess if i find something i really love, it won't matter. so i guess we will see.

i mean this whole thing took only about 15 minutes. i think we may have went over a bit. but it was just so incredible!!!!!! maybe it is because i want to believe it, but to me there is just too much there to say it is all hooey!!

i was thinking of taking my mom there within the next few weeks to see if she says anything like she told me, but i don't know if my mom would tell me, cause i know she would not want to worry me! this is just going to bother the shit out of me now. like i don't sleep enough! i know she said everything is going to be ok, but i just don't want my mom to have to go through anything! she is such a nice, caring, loving person. she had to battle breast cancer YEARS ago, at a very early age. she should not have to go through something else again, especially when all she has done with her life is good things for other people!!!! damn it i am stupid!!! how could i have not asked her more questions about that!!!! stupid, stupid, stupid!!! maybe i should go back. is there some kind of waiting period between psychic readings?!?!


as for tv shows. i'm mad those two tattoo people got kicked of fear factor. especially after that one goof was talking shit about them. i hate that!!! for some reason these episodes seem like they are taking forever! i don't remember it being like that on the last couple's series.

as for the bachelorette, i didn't do to well on my predictions this week. she dropped stu, i really liked him! everyone thought he was creepy, but i would love to have a guy that into me, he seemed to genuinly care for her!! i don't know why she kept that french guy, he gets on my LAST nerve!! but since she kept him, i am glad she kept josh. my fave is still jerry, even though he still hasn't SAID anything to really get me, he is just damn hot!!!!! my favorite so far, from hearing him talk and what he says to her is wendell. that keith actually won me over tonight, i was very surprised.

that new nanny show, once again made me terrified to to have more children! god i hope my children don't turn out like those on these shows!!!!

and as for my soaps, they pissed me off like usual!

well that is it for me. i am wiped! i didn't get a good nap, since clay did not want to take a nap AGAIN. i swear he was in his crib pissing around for almost 2 hours! i put him up there before 1, and i fell asleep after 2 and i know he was still awake! i was in there like 3 times! when i woke at 3 he was finally out.

so i am off to sleep now, so i can think about all the psychic said to me and get NO sleep like usual! night!

Monday, January 17, 2005

~1-17-05~ Know what I hate?!

i hate fucking rebates!!!!!!!!

they do this, cause they know stupid people, like myself, will forget about them and not redeem them!

i just found the receipts from when i got my new printer. well the fucker at the cash register never told me about the rebate for the $70 "ink, paper, and more" gift card, that i was entitled to....so that is partly his fault. and of course it was to be postmarked by the 11th! and it is now the 17th!!!!!

the other i should have known about, it is not all bad cause i have til april to turn that one it, but i am sure i will forget about it by the. even though i have it sitting right here in front of me so i don't.

i'm pissed! i want my $70 gift card for whatever!!! i'm still gonna send it it, maybe they won't catch it. i'm sure they will though. i tried it before on some rebate i had and it was returned. DAMN IT!!!!

how can you pass up "free" stuff?!?!?

i guess i shouldn't complain too much, since i did get a nice, new printer for "free" due to my own ignorance, which thankfully noone caught on to. but hey, i wouldn't be me if i weren't bitching about something would i!



i just painted my nails, pain in the ass! i was supposed to go saturday to get them done, but i felt bad that my mom was going to change her plans to come and sit with clay, so i just cancelled. the place i started going, the nail girl is only there on thrusday, friday, and saturday. that is so retarded! to her credit, it is because she just had a baby and wants to spend time with him, so i really can't blame her, but it is a pain in my ass when i need my nails done NOW and it is only sunday! so anyways, i made an appointment for this coming thursday, so what happens tonight? i break a fucking nail!!!

so i just filed the bitches down as best as i could and threw some polish on there. not that i ever go anywhere to worry about it, but YES.....my friend molly is taking me out tomorrow for my birthday!!!!!!!!!

we are going to see a psychic. i guess she goes to this chinese resturant and gives discount readings. so instead of $30 for 15 minutes, it is $20 for 15 minutes. then we are going to have dinner. YEAH!!! chinese!!!! so that is cool. i wonder what she is going to have to tell me. i think i am allowed recording it, but who the hell knows where my recorder is. maybe i will takes notes. hopefully she will tell me i am going to win the lotto. but of course she will have to tell me to start playing it first!!!!

i'll try and remember what she says, to tell you all.

once again, it is late, so i'm off to bed. night!

Sunday, January 16, 2005

~1-16-05~ Bone to pick

i have a MAJOR bone to pick with all of you who raved on and on about either napolean dynamite or open water.

were we watching the same movies?!?!?! they were AWFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! as a matter of fact the napolean one, was perhaps one of the WORST movies i have ever saw! and if you like it please, please, please explain WHAT!!!!!!!!!! WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

as for open water, if you don't want a spoiler, skip down. what the fuck!!! based on true events. apparently just the fact that 2 people were left in the ocean, cause seeing how NO ONE FUCKING LIVED, how in the hell do you know what happened out there?!?!?!?! thanks everyone for pulling me in with the surprise, twist, ending! no that was not a surprise or a twist, it was BULLSHIT!!!

i am so pissed that i WASTED a WHOLE night watching this shit!!

thank god i rented shaun of the dead. it was funny, it had a PLOT, i understood what was happening, and i ACTUALLY ENJOYED it!!!! it just sucks that it is now 3am!!!!

but i had to watch it, just so my night wasn't ended on a SUCK ASS LEVEL from watching some SUCK ASS movies!!! bob is soooooo lucky they weren't his picks!! he is also lucky that he fell asleep through the last one. i feel bad that he wasted his night, the only night he gets to stay up late, with that crap!!!!! now i may have to actually let him pick the next movies, just as an apology!!

i'm sure i don't even have to rate the first 2 movies for you. they have NEGATIVE stars! as for shaun of the dead, it was BETTER than the re-make dawn of the dead, but still not better than the original dawn of the dead. i still only give it 3 stars, but it almost get 5 stars, just being compared to the horror that was the other 2 movies!

UGH! i'm going to bed!!

Saturday, January 15, 2005

~1-15-05~ 3 things--for Tricia

3 names you go by:
1. Jennifer
2. Jen
3. J

3 screen names you have:
1. bobbysgirlonly
2. jdolph
3. the_ewells

3 things you like about yourself:
1. I'm a good mother (most of the time)
2. I'm a good wife (most of the time)
3. I'm a good friend (most of the time)

3 things you hate/dislike about yourself:
1. Weight
2. Hair
3. Unorganized

3 parts of your heritage:
1. Italian
2. French
3. ?

3 things that scare you:
1. Anything bad happening to my family or friends.
2. Death of family or friends
3. Bob's driving

3 of your everyday essentials:
1. Clay
2. Cigarettes
3. Computer

3 things you're wearing right now:
1. Snowman jammie pants
2. White t-shirt
3. Socks

3 of your favorite bands/artists:
1. Poison
2. Shania Twain
3. Wildside

3 of your favorite songs at present: *I haven't listened to new songs in ages, so old songs:
1. I'll Never Let You Go- Steelheart
2. When I said I do- Clint and Lisa Black
3. Lonestar- I'm Already There

3 new things you want to try in the next 12 months:
1. Lose weight
2. Become more organized
3. Get out of debt

3 things you want in a relationship (love is a given):
1. Caring
2. Compassion
3. Trust

2 truths and a lie:(no particular order to keep ya guessing)
1. I have 2 tattoos
2. I have 14 piercings
3. I regret them

3 physical things about a love interest that appeal:
1. Eyes
2. Smile
3. Dimples

3 things you just can't do:
1. Work
2. Keep a clean house
3. Not eat after 7pm

3 of your favorite hobbies:
1. Blogging
2. Printing photos
3. Sleeping

3 things you want to do really badly right now:
1. Win the lotto
2. Go somewhere warm
3. Take a nap

3 careers you're considering (let's say I would consider):
1. Mom of 2 or more
2. Ebay power seller
3. Anything home based, or self employed

3 places you want to go on vacation:
1. Carribean
2. Bahamas
3. Canada

3 kids names (either boy or girl):
1. Clay
2. Brayden (bob won't let me)
3. Dawson (bob won't let me)

3 things you want to do before you die:
1. Enjoy my children raising a happy loving family of their own
2. Volunteer, or something to really help people in need
3. Be happy with my weight

3 people who have to take this quiz now:
1. Who
2. Ever wants
3. to, and post it here in the comments

Friday, January 14, 2005

~1-14-05~ %#$&*@! Bills

well after i left you all last night i decided to pay bills, well somehow i totally screwed that up!!

in december we had 3 pays, so that sort of messed up the dates in which bob got paid. i have 2 batches of bills. the ones that come outof first pay, and the ones that come out of the second pay. usually even though i paid the ones the first pay, if i skip and wait til 2nd pay they will still be ok.

well that is until the dates got screwed up!!!

so i paid everything, and the few things that have to wait. bob's nest pay is the 28th. but the few thing that had to wait are due like the 25th!!!! HELL!!!!

so now i need $477! i was going to borrow it from my mom, but i was laready paying her $200 this month on what i owe her. i'm hoping that by the time i mail them out and they get it and it clears it will be the 28th!

i hate this shit!!! i can't wait til next pay, then it should be bob'snew pay and i am soooooooooooo looking forward to that!

i hate bills!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~1-14-05~ Clay cuteness

i forgot a few cute things about clay.

for christmas i got him a letter puzzle that has both capital and lower case letters. he already knows the upper, but was clueless with the lower case, so i thought it would be neat to have them both side by side. well he pretty much has them, but have you ever noticed how difficult the lower case letters are?!?!?!

think about it!! especially if you are 2!!! for example.

little b, d, p, and q. are pretty much the same thing!!!! or could be the same thing, depending on which way you turn/hold them. so i can't really tell him he is wrong...hell i don't even know til you put them in the puzzle and they don't fit!! to make it worse the d and p are the same color, so you can't even go by that!!!!!

then we go on to l and i. he usually puts them in the right place, but now the l is missing and he always points at it and says "i". so i always go "little l" now that i type it i am surprised he doesn't call it an "um (one)" more confusion!

it is cute, he calls the little g, nine. funny! and it is hard to correct him, cause he is SUCH a tease! you do and he just does the wrong thing just to spite you. that goes the same for NO. half the time i just don't even tell him no anymore, cause if i do, he will then just do it more.....guess that is spiteful, not a tease. but he thinks it is just the funniest thing!!!! once again, he is lucky he is so cute! he better take advantage now, cause that won't last forever i'm sorry to say!!

i was calling him a hillbilly the other day, cause his face and shirt were a mess, my mother fed him. so he would lift up his shirt cause he thought i said belly. so he would lift his shirt and i would go "hillbilly, not hillbelly", this was the funniest thing to him, so even today he would come up to me and lift up his shirt so i would do the whole routine over again. too cute!

ok, enough cuteness for one entry. night

~1-14-05~ It's winter again.

well it sure didn't take its time coming back. i swear i was just on here around 9pm and it was still in the 50's. on my way upstairs a little while ago, i looked out and the ground and road is already covered in snow!!!!!

my basement is SOAKED!!!! i went down a while ago and actually picked all of bob's clothes off of the floor, since they were soaking wet and probably already breeding black mold, or some kind of smelly, bad stuff.

thankfully i had him go down and move the box of playboys, cause when i went down later there was water all over there. only 1 magazine was pretty wet, which sucks cause it is a 1964. i was praying it was from the 80's but no! it had to be an older one. it doesn't seem too messed up or ruined, but i don't know if anyone will want it or not.

then just when i am getting all these plans in my mind for ebay, i hear they are raising their fees by 60%!!! what the fuck?!?! don't tell me they aren't making money!! those greedy bastards!!

well the girlie doctor went as well as it usually does. funny, the thing i dreaded the most was not the peeing in a cup or the actual exam, it was getting on the scale!! i didn't even look. i don't want to know. all i know is it is about 30 pounds more than it should be!

so i got some birth control. and bob freaked!! WHY?!?!?! so he goes, well what would you think if i came home with a box of condoms and some cologne. how does that even compare?!?!

somehow me getting on birth control means that i am/or thinking of screwing around?!?! what the fuck?!?! yeah, i don't EVER get out of the house so who the hell am i screwing. i am lucky if i get a shower every other day, haven't shaved in god knows how long, WHO AM I SCREWING, or should i say, WHO IS WANTING TO SCREW ME?!?!

i told him, that we just had the discussion the other day, that we were going to wait until august to try for another, so why not get on birth control, just to be safe?!?! i mean when i got pregnant last year, that was NOT planned, and if i were on birth control, that whole god awful mess would have been avoided. so i could say i am doing this for my health!!!!

then he said, well we probably won't even have sex til august, yeah, well keep doing dumb shit to piss me off and you may be right buddy!!!!

and what the hell does he think i would do with clay if i were messing around?!?! it isn't like i have a babysitter or anything or anywhere to take him. my grandfather has been coming over everyday, so he could vouch that i am here. and he knows how lazy i am!! god, if i were to go off and be doing naughty things, that would mean i would have to shower, do my hair, do my makeup, hell do laundry for that matter, and GASP....leave the house!! ain't NO sex worth all of that people!! sorry, but NO, especially in the winter....is he crazy?!?!?! and this place is a mess, i couldn't have anyone over here!!!

he is just nuts!!

anyways, it, the contraception, is called the http://www.nuvaring.com/Consumer/index.asp?SetSession=Yes&strGUID={1C7D1A93-6673-43D8-AADB-D15CB5A22C71}&SID=340303504.

i wanted this meridia thing, but since i now have a "history" of ectopic pregnancy, i cannot get that. and i CANNOT take a pill everyday! i don't know how i managed to NOT get pregnant for 15 years on it, since i rarely remembered to take it! and that shot, don't even get me on that mess. so she suggested this. i'm not to thrilled about the putting it in and taking it out. so we will see how it goes.

by the way, since i actually had to leave my house today, there was no way for me NOT to see my house...even thought it isn't done IT LOOKS SOOOOOOOOOOOO PRETTY!!! i am sooooooooooooooo excited! i was going to take pictures, but it is almost done, so i figured i would just wait til completion and then do a before and after. it just looks so nice!!! bob was thrilled about it as well. so i had to tell him "told you so!!!" why he doubts me all the time, i still have no clue. how many times does someone have to be right, for you to finally GET IT!!!

but who knows when it is going to get done, since it is supposed to be below freezing for another week!! that sucks!! i can't wait!! BUT it also means that we are gonna HAVE to do something to the outside, in ways of landscaping. you can't have a pretty house, then some ugly ass trees and shrubs. i already know what i want, it is just the fact of actually doing it. i really think it will motivate us though, especially since we want to sell it this spring.

well that is all for now.....catch ya tomorrow!

Thursday, January 13, 2005

~1-13-05~ Good news

I AM 22% WHITE TRASH!
22% WHITE TRASH
I, my friend, have class. I am so not white trash. . I am more than likely Democrat, and my place is neat, and there is a good chance I may never drink wine from a box.


that is good news right? i'm sure it is a bit higher, they just didn't ask the right questions.



in other good news, grandpa came, so i got my shower. the bangnig right now isn't too bad, so i am going to try and lay clay down for a nap. we will see..........

~1-13-05~ I'm a dirty girl

well, i need a shower!!! especially before i go to the girlie doctor today.

so of course they are here working on the house NOW, which means that clay will more than likely NOT get a nap, which means when the hell am i supposed to take a shower?!?!?!

my grandfather has been here EVERYDAY this week, hopefully he will come here today, so i can get in the shower. watch today when i NEED him here, he won't show. i tried calling, but that man is never home!

come on grandpa!! i need ya! :)

~1-3-05~ Spring fever

it feels like spring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sigh, too bad it is going back to winter tomorrow!! and then probably til april or may!!!!!

at least my doctor's appointment is today and not tomorrow!

i hate winter!!!!

~1-13-05~ First I was wet, now I am HOT!

i am burning up!!!!!!!! i don't know if it was the fact i was moving around and actually doing stuff, or due to the fact that it is 60 degrees outside!!!!

it quit raining finally today around 11 am, so i figured SURELY they would come and work on my house today since it was sooooooo nice out. NOPE! why the hell would you not come work on a day, in december, when it is in the damn 50's?!?!?! knowing that friday it is going to be in the 20's?!?!?! who knows?! i guess they are the ones who have to have their asses out in it, their fault! no i shouldn't say that, they probably WON'T be here when it is in the 20's, which it is supposed to be for over a week come friday!!!

i wanted to wait to see my house til it was all done, but i have to go to the girly doctor's tomorrow. which means i have to go outside, and i have no choice but to see my house. oh well, a little is better than nothing done so far i guess.

one other thing i should add, in a way it is good that they are pissing around, cause bob STILL hasn't faxed whatever the fuck we have to fax to the mortgage company so they will give us some more of OUR money. something i still do not understand! but anyways, we have only got a 1/3 of the money so far, and for every 1/3 it needs to be inspected, so even if they were done working, i wouldn't have the money to pay them.

let's see what was on the other night.

the biggest loser. i knew jerry was going to win. i mean he lost a whole person!!! all 3 were just amazing! i can't wait til next week to see how all the other ones turned out as well. lisa was still my favorite. i think she is so pretty!! she just looked great!

i didn't get to watch the billionaire yet.

amazing race. do you know that i fucking hate, that fucking bastard, piece of fucking shit, dickhead, motherfucker jonathan. i seriously do not know how noone else doesn't punch that fucker. he drives me INSANE. as the weeks go by i am starting to not feel so sorry for his wife, i mean she puts up with his shit, so why should i feel bad for her. i wish someone would just tell them both how unbelieveably stupid they are.
hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, hate.......i hate them!!!!!!! i so wanted them gone last week. and if they would have come in last and it be a non-elimination like last night, i would have went through the ceiling! i just want them gone!!!!!!!! as a matter of fact, i don't......i want them to come in second! that would burn him so bad, i think he would have a stroke! that works for me! he is worthless!!

tonight........

lost is still confusing me!! so there is not much i can say on this one. i am still freaked out knowing that what's his name and what's her name slept together.....i don't care if they are ONLY step brother and sister, it still gave me the willies.

i actually watched that nanny show.......i swear that show just makes you NOT want to have kids.....and if you do have kids, all i do is wonder if i am doing the right thing. of course i always cry at the end. i'm sure you figured!!

wife swap wasn't too bad tonight. i would have slapped those 2 sisters silly a few times, but other than that i think everyone got along alright, and got a lot of positive out of it. i really liked how the husband was defending that other mother from her daughter. i thought that was nice of him.

i taped the swim suit model thing. i didn't get to watch or tape it last week, so i haven't even got to check it out yet. maybe tomorrow, since thursday's are gonna suck til survivor and the apprentice come back. oh there is wickedly perfect! haha! at least ER is new tomorrow.

i forgot my clothes in the dryer. which wouldn't be a bad thing, but when i originally did them, i forgot to turn them on, so i threw a second load in with the first load. i did finally put that on, put on medium. then i totally forgot about them all together! until tonight, i figured they never dried since they were jam packed in there and only on medium heat. no, they weren't, they smelled! so what does bob do. he turns the dryer on. WHY?!?!?! why would you dry clothes, that i am gonna have to rewash?!?!?! whatever, so i just rewashed those, and i WILL remember to do them right this time. my basement is AWFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

it smells so bad down there, and it isn't from my clothes or the litter boxes. it is from the wetness.

lets do the math. my roof was done in november. they tore off all my old spouting when they did the roof, and i'm sure i mentioned this a thousand times....IT HAS NOT QUIT FREAKING RAINING SINCE NOVEMBER!!!!! so my basement is getting wet as shit!

what really pisses me off, which i may have mentioned. i have a HUGE box of OLD playboys that were my fathers, that i am planning on selling on ebay, and of course now that part of the basement is also getting wet. i've asked bob to move them a million times, but they are still there, so now i am sure there are some that are totally ruined....and if you don't have the whole year, they do NOT sell. so i am hot about that!!!

so far all the food we ate, and no one got sick, so i think we are ok. come to think of it, I haven't ate any of it! i've been eating all the turkey stuff i made. well, noone else has got sick, so i hope that means everything is ok.

i'm gonna get going and do some pointless stuff, instead of going to sleep like i should be doing. but that's me!

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