~11-21-06~ HUH????

well i finally talked to my friend, where bob was the other night, and got the whole story of what went on and i am just dumb founded. well, not really.........

bob became close with her boyfriend. they watch football together on the weekends, and are actally a lot a like in some bad ways, another entry, another day....

anyways, he went over there to watch the ohio state game. at some point somehow amy and her guy, started to get into it. you'd really have to know her to know how escilated arguments can get, again another entry, another time, when i have much time. if she is right or if she is wrong.

so he was drunk, and mistook something she said, and all hell broke loose from there. they were going at it, she hit him, it was a big ole mess, and bob was sticking around trying to keep peace.

that is LONG story very short!!

that is all fine and well. that is one of the things i love about him. he will try to help people out when they need it.

my whole thing is WHY DID YOU NOT CALL HOME AND TELL ME ANY OF THIS???????????????

instead just let my mind go and wonder if you were dead or in jail or something?!?!

then i didn't even get this story from him!!!!!! i haven't even spoken to him until tonight.

when i asked him why he didn't say anything to me, he said that he was emabarrassed and disgusted with himself.

the reason he didn't tell me his reason or excuse is because he had none. there was no reason for what transpired that night.

i guess i got it, but it still seems a bit odd. unless he is taking to heart a lot of stuff that i have said to him recently. i told him sorry was no longer acceptable. he has used it too much so now it has no meaning. so he was being especially nice and attentive tonight, so i don't know........

i am just tired, and the whole thing was just fucking stupid! especially since the people we are talking about are all in our 30's!! what the hell??

yes, i may get bored with my life sometimes, but i do not want any kind of drama like that. thank you god for the boredom!!!!

**an update on the dogs. you would not believe how long it took them to finally go outside!!! they wanted none of it! it was too funny. i doubt that it taught them a lesson, cause 1, they are dogs and 2, they are male, sorry for you guys that that don't apply too, just talking in general here.........

anyways, they did not go out until about 10-11 this evening!

and to mike to answer your question from myspace. the reason i gave them money is cause i think it is WONDERFUL what they do. if i had the space and means i would definitely open a rescue shelter. i cannot even stomach the humane (NOT) society or the pound. i just don't see how they can just get a dog for a week, then his time is up and down it goes. breaks my heart!!! i love that these people go to those awful places and rescue the "death row" pup and kitties.

and to comment to someone from people magazine that wrote(in response to rescue shelters) "instead of providing housing, the shelters should put their energy into spaying and neutering", that is exactly what rescue shelters do! all the ones i have looked into, they will not adopt out a dog or cat unless they have been fixed first!! no exceptions! the non-humane society give you some voucher or credit, but really, i don't half the people follow through, so there is no guarantee they they are getting them fixed.

i got bernie through a rescue shelter. i drove almost an hour away to get him. and it did cost more, to cover expenses that they incur, but i didn't mind. when i was looking for him, it broke my heart to see all the HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS of animals that needed homes on petfinder.com. and that was just in my little area!!! very sad!! then again i am a softie!


well it is a school day tomorrow, so i need to get to bed. 7am comes WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY toooooooooooooooo early for me!!!!

take care!